给在天堂的外婆祈祷

2008年4月3日下午2点13分,一个一生艰苦勤劳、朴实善良的老人离去,在病痛折磨和对亲人们的不舍中永远离开了,带去了亲人们的沉痛哀悼,“英容宛然灵车驾,儿女堂前血泪洒”…

我出生在乡下,从小和外婆就有着深厚感情,小时候父母在城里,我和外婆在乡下相依为命,直到7岁才进到城里和父母一起生活,童年的记忆时常浮现眼前,历历在目:外婆背着我干农活儿、推磨;外婆带着我给庄稼收成,摘黄豆、摘南瓜、摘豇豆、挖红薯… 外婆常年给我患上恶疾的脚上药、不停的用嘴吹着伤口以减轻我的病痛; 调皮的我总是到处乱跑,外婆带着焦急和担心漫山遍野的叫着我的名字找寻; 从镇上赶集回来,外婆总会给我买回来我喜欢吃的麻团;每年稻谷收成的季节,外婆都会给我做一种叫做“麻汤(音译)”的糖;小学一年级在乡下念书,当时的班主任曾给外婆说:“你的外孙很聪明,将来肯定能上大学”,这成为外婆多年来常常会对人提起的话题,言语间带着慈爱和自豪…

外婆的一生勤劳能干,外婆的勤劳不甚枚举:早上天还没有亮就到地里干活,每天到深夜才会入睡; 外婆一生种树无数,家旁边整山的竹林和很多的李子、樱桃、核桃、板栗、桔子、百果等都是外婆一生种下的; 外婆一生坚持养鸡鸭鹅、养猪、养狗、养猫…; 一生种下了几乎我听说过的所有蔬菜和庄稼,甚至包括芝麻、芋头一些很少见的品种; 三个孩子还有我小时候的衣服,都是外婆用针线在煤油灯下缝制出来的…

外婆的一生艰辛、善良,外公很年轻就去世了,留下三个孩子给外婆,外婆独自承担了家里的农活儿并抚养了三个孩子; 外婆从来都不舍得自己吃一点好吃的,全部都给了孩子和晚辈;外婆心地善良,记忆中外婆多次寻医问药和采集草药给猫狗治病,多次因为猫病死而伤心落泪…

外婆的一生也很固执,出于中国传统的观念影响, 多年来,妈妈和大姨都把外婆接到过城里住, 但是每次都坚持不了几天,外婆就会如同孩子般哭着闹着要回到乡下,放心不下乡下的鸡鸭鹅、猫狗猪和庄稼,放心不下乡下一辈子都不懂事的舅舅…

在外漂泊的我,总会常常挂念乡下的外婆,这成为我多年来不可割舍的一份牵挂,这次得知外婆病重,我连夜凌晨1点多赶回重庆,赶到乡下老家医院病床上的外婆身边已经凌晨3点多,外婆依靠药物和氧气维持着微弱的生命,在医院陪伴的两天,是如此漫长和伤痛的两天。 看到外婆饱受病痛折磨不断呻吟而又无能为力,外婆在弥留之际表现出来的对亲人们无限的留恋,外婆用微弱的声音说:“我死都不怕,但就是舍不得你们啊!” ,听到这句话是,我感觉自己心都碎了…

在医院陪伴外婆走过人生最后两天时间,外婆带着我的痛哭和泪水永远的离开了, 我抬着外婆,把外婆从医院送回了她一辈子都舍不得离开的乡下的屋子。

外婆,你在天堂一定要过上平安幸福的好日子…

12 thoughts on “给在天堂的外婆祈祷”

  1. 我外婆也是在今年年初的时候过世的
    我也很有感触。
    好在这个月的14号就能去看他了。。。
    希望他在天堂什么都不缺,快快乐乐的就好了。

  2. 感谢几位朋友的良言和祝福,相信外婆也能感受到大家的祝福,谢谢你们。

    这次外婆离开和我的重庆之行,对我的触动很大,一下子又感悟了很多人生的道理,人就是这样不断在经历中成长和变化的。

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